There is HOPE • There is HEALING •
There is RECOVERY from Sexual Betrayal

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Recover is a ten-week study to help women recover from sexual betrayal. It starts with the relational component of stories from women who have journeyed with a spouse addicted to pornography or sex outside of the marriage (the video sessions). It’s an interactive experience that provokes deep thought and reflection, allowing women to write their own story and be in control of their outcome (the guidebook). This program altogether (the book, guidebook and ten video session curriculum) leads them to a place of healing and recovery they didn’t know was possible. It will change how they view themselves in the midst of uncertainty and help them to rediscover themselves and all they were meant to be.

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THE PROBLEM

 50% of Christian men admit to viewing porn.

For the majority of that percentage, there is a woman hurt by their addiction.

The vast majority of the faith community, including leaders and laity, believe pornography is a bigger problem in the Church than it was two decades ago. But many do not know what to do about it. Many wives and significant others are often standing alone because no one knows how to deal with this problem, or worse they are given advice that leads to further trauma.

A commonality amongst Christian women dedicated to men who are addicted has been further trauma through the counsel of those who are ill-equipped. In the making of this program, we learned from women some of the astonishing things they were told in both pastoral and Christian counseling:

  • “If you were more submissive in the bedroom perhaps that would help this.”
  • “Maybe God is more concerned with something He’s after in you then in your husband’s struggles.”
  • “If you didn’t have such a critical spirit your husband wouldn’t be searching for affirmation elsewhere.”
  • “Maybe dress up a little, fix your hair & make-up and be presentable when he gets home from work.”  

All of these statements are blame statements and tell a woman that she should be able to control her husband’s choices. This type of counsel leads to further trauma and only causes more pain, confusion, and despair.

AND IT IS CLEAR THAT APPROACHES LIKE THIS AREN’T WORKING. IT’S TIME FOR A NEW APPROACH – ONE THAT’S ROOTED IN LOVE, GRACE, AND HELPS A WOMAN REDISCOVER ALL SHE WAS MEANT TO BE. IT’S TIME TO WALK WITH HER ON THE ROAD TO RECOVER.

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WHY EXPERIENCE RECOVER?

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  • Recover addresses the lie that women are the cause and somehow responsible for their loved one’s addiction. Through each session women are encouraged, built up and reminded of the truth– They are loved, valuable and CHOSEN by an all-consuming God who will never leave or forsake them.
  • Recover moves women from a place of hopelessness to a place of assurance and peace that is not dependent upon their spouse’s choices.
  • Recover addresses the importance of forgiveness, accountability, and boundaries–not just for their loved one but also for themselves.
  • The Recover Guidebook is the catalyst to personal, in-depth reflection through an interactive experience by asking thought provoking questions and challenging exercises allowing women to write their own story.
  • The Recovered by Hope book is a compilation of letters written to women suffering from sexual betrayal from women who have been there and experienced the same devastation. There’s nothing better for peace of mind and a broken heart than knowing that someone truly understands.
  • Recover is the right approach to help women right now, the right way!

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WHY IS RECOVER EFFECTIVE AND UNIQUE?

  • Over a decade in the making and brought to you by the experts at XXXchurch.
  • Not just another book or counseling session–it’s something you experience first hand with others on the same journey.
  • Interactive learning from those who have been there makes realistic transformation possible.
  • Creates an authentic relationship with self through Christ and helps women confidently create their own plan of action for wholeness and healing.
  • Non-judgmental approach that allows the participant to come to their own understanding of what is and isn’t helpful in recovery.

VIDEO SAMPLES

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Healing for wives is possible regardless of where their spouse is on their journey.

We’ll see you on the road to recovery.

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“I’ve just received the Recover workshop and watched Craig’s intro video. I’m in tears. I believe these materials will touch spouses' lives in profound and life-changing ways. Thank you for all the time and energy you’ve invested in this project. I’m eager to promote it and beyond thrilled to be part of sharing these tools to help women find companionship, hope, and healing on their individual journeys.”

Kim B.

I cried. I laughed. I remembered. I mourned. I rejoiced. I connected. I related. I got more healing!

By the end of this series, I felt I had gained some powerful friendships. Normally it would take years of building a relationship to reach this kind of closeness where someone is willing to reveal so much pain and triumph. These women have given us a rich gift, and I am better for it.

I believe Recover will benefit any woman: married, engaged, dating, single – mothers, sisters, friends. There is such wisdom to be gained. Although the circumstances are different for each woman, they all shared early red flags that should be recognized and that we would do well to pay attention to. What heartache could be spared so many of us if this were a part of pre-marital counseling (or even earlier in a relationship – pre-dating maybe!).

ANNE T.

These videos were so helpful and healing for me!! I could hear all my thoughts in these precious brave women who are sharing from such a painful place. I could hear the pearls that they have found in the pain. Their vulnerability and tears brought hope to me! It has been a long hard lonely painful journey. God has been ever so faithful to hold me thru it.

This was a priceless answer to heart-wrenching prayers!

TERIE

"This series is thoughtful, well laid out and tackles many of the challenges women face being married to a sex addict. Gone are the days when the spouse is misunderstood. This workshop challenges women to discover who they are in the midst of uncertainty while leaving them filled with hope and new possibilities."

ANDREA T.

"Recover helped me get past the pain of my husband’s porn addiction and showed me a better way to find personal healing. I always thought I was alone in this … that there was something wrong with me. But now I know the truth, and this workshop has shown me a clear path to my own personal recovery."

KATIE O.

"The Recover videos are beautiful, poignant, real, touching, heartbreaking ... and will be such a tremendous help and gift and comfort to any women walking that painful path. I have cried during each video thus far, and that is a good thing because it stirred up memories and tremendous compassion for ladies still in the midst. ... it's so gentle yet so raw and so real."

CAROLE

THE recover small group kit

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ONE TIME PAYMENT OF $599

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WITH THE RECOVER SMALL GROUP KIT YOU RECEIVE:

10 PHYSICAL Copies of Recovered By Hope book

10 PHYSICAL Copies of Recover Guidebook

1 Flash Drive with All of the Videos Plus eBooks

1 Leader Guide for a Small Group Experience

1 Online-Portal Login for Leaders to Get Familiar With the Content (Videos and eBooks) Until Your Package Arrives

Shipped and scheduled to arrive within 10 days of purchase